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For most of us trying something new in bed is an exciting opportunity. The very thought of all that new and untapped pleasure is enough to make the blood run faster, while the imagination comes up with delightful forecasts of the nice things to come.
However, one of the things that you end up wondering about whenever you or her feel like leaving the beaten path and trying something new is: how far will you go? What's the limit that you're willing to observe? Are you ready to do anything and forget about the consequences or do you think that letting things get out of hand is wrong?
Another thing to keep in mind is that you also have to think about your partner's boundaries. Is she prepared to go as far as you are?
Maybe the new pastime that you're about to propose is off limits to her. On the other hand, maybe you're ideas are too tame for her. Fact is every person is different in his or her likes and dislikes.
You cannot and should not make decisions for somebody else, especially when it comes to trying out new things in bed, which is a particularly sensitive issue. Deciding all by yourself that today is leather thong day is not a good idea.
There are hundreds of things you can do in bed, ranging from the tamest and on to extreme fetishes and perversions. Regardless of what it is you're planning to do, you should make sure that you have all the facts before proceeding.
You need to learn most of what is known about your fantasy or fetish because you must be able to protect yourself from any unpleasant consequences. You will also have to explain everything to the lady, which means that you will have to at least give the impression that you know what you're talking about and that you're not about to put both of you at risk.
Besides, women are impressed with men who know a lot of things. So if you want to try anal sex, you need to talk her gently into it and to show that you know how to make anal sex pleasant for the both of you and also perfectly safe.
Since the anus is not the cleanest place on earth and women are far more concerned with hygiene than men, it follows that she will be more than a little worried about your ideas.
That's why you need to be able to explain her that anal sex can be very safe and very pleasant for both partners.